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'A fulness of joy': President Nelson shares message of eternal life at his daughter's funeral

COTTONWOOD HEIGHTS, Utah — Speaking at funeral services for his “righteous and joyful” daughter, President Russell M. Nelson testified of the reality of eternal life on Saturday, Jan. 19.

“Our tears of sorrow will turn to tears of anticipation as we gain an eternal perspective,” said the leader of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

The Cottonwood Heights Utah Brighton Stake Center was filled to capacity as mourners paid tribute to Wendy Nelson Maxfield, 67, who died Friday, Jan. 11, of cancer.

She was remembered for the love, testimony, music, energy and laughter she shared. She and her husband, Norman A. Maxfield, are the parents of seven children and have 20 grandchildren. She is the second of nine daughters and one son born to President Nelson and Sister Dantzel White Nelson.

President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints with his wife, Sister Wendy Nelson, stand with son in-law Norman A. Maxfield after funeral services at the the Cottonwood Heights Utah Brighton Stake Center for President Nelson's daughter, Wendy Nelson Maxfield, on Saturday, Jan. 19, 2019.
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints with his wife, Sister Wendy Nelson, stand with son in-law Norman A. Maxfield after funeral services at the the Cottonwood Heights Utah Brighton Stake Center for President Nelson's daughter, Wendy Nelson Maxfield, on Saturday, Jan. 19, 2019. Photo: Scott G Winterton, Deseret News

President Nelson was joined at the funeral service by his wife, Sister Wendy W. Nelson; three generations of his large family; his counselors in the First Presidency — President Dallin H. Oaks and President Henry B. Eyring; and some members of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.

During his remarks, President Nelson said when a parent bids farewell to a child, something dies within that parent’s heart. “But when love pours in so bounteously from family, friends and colleagues, that grief is assuaged in a most marvelous way.”

He told his posterity: “I, with most of you, have shed many tears. I am especially comforted by the Lord’s commandment that, ‘Thou shalt live together in love, insomuch that thou shalt weep for the loss of them that die’ (Doctrine and Covenants 42:45).”

In his last conversation with his daughter, President Nelson reported to her “that her Daddy is very proud of her,” he said. “She has always chosen to do that which is right.”

She married a wonderful husband for time and all eternity in a holy temple, he said. “The most important date in her life is neither her birth date nor her death date. Her most important date is August 27, 1974. That is the date she and Norm were sealed. Each child was born under the everlasting covenant made on that memorable date.”

President Nelson told his grandchildren that they will honor their mother — who spent her entire life ministering, teaching, loving and serving others — through their own righteousness.

The Norman and Wendy Nelson Maxfield family. Sister Maxfield, daughter of President Russell M. Nelson, passed away Friday, January 11, 2019 after a courageous battle with cancer.
The Norman and Wendy Nelson Maxfield family. Sister Maxfield, daughter of President Russell M. Nelson, passed away Friday, January 11, 2019 after a courageous battle with cancer. Photo: Intellectual Reserve, Inc.

Thanks to the Atonement of Jesus Christ, Wendy Nelson Maxfield’s spirit still lives as an eternal entity, he said. With that eternal perspective, Latter-day Saints can understand better the purposes of life and death.

Quoting President Joseph F. Smith, President Nelson said, “ ‘Children should be taught early in life that death is really a necessity as well as a blessing, and that we would not and could not be satisfied and supremely happy without it.’

“Our precious Wendy had to pass through that gateway we call death in order to experience a fulness of joy.”

President Nelson said his daughter has been welcomed home by her mother, Sister Dantzel W. Nelson, who died unexpectedly on Feb. 12, 2005, and her sister Emily Nelson Wittwer, who died on Jan. 29, 1995. She will continue to grow, learn and progress, he said. “Just think of what lies ahead for her.”

President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints hugs members of his family at the Cottonwood Heights Utah Brighton Stake Center after President Nelson spoke at his daughter Wendy Nelson Maxfield's funeral on Saturday, Jan. 19, 2019.
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints hugs members of his family at the Cottonwood Heights Utah Brighton Stake Center after President Nelson spoke at his daughter Wendy Nelson Maxfield's funeral on Saturday, Jan. 19, 2019. Photo: Scott G Winterton, Deseret News

To her children and grandchildren, President Nelson said: “She can minister to you in what I call ‘parenting through the veil.’ She can see us more clearly through the veil than we see her. We cannot forget her. We do not cease to love her. We are sealed to her by eternal ties. She loves us now more than ever. Her desire for our well-being will be even greater than that which we feel for ourselves. So dear family, stay tuned.”

Sister Gloria Nelson Irion, matron of the Nauvoo Illinois Temple, remembered her sister’s “love of the Lord and her desire to serve Him,” which extended naturally to serving others — especially her family.

All seven Maxfield children — Marissa Jackson, Blake Maxfield, Matthew Maxfield, Brady Maxfield, Megan Hammond, Bryndy Bradshaw and Makenzie Taylor — spoke of their mother’s many attributes. She spent her days serving others; loving her husband, children and grandchildren; and creating a home “centered on Christ,” they said.

“I believe my mother’s happiness came from her faith and belief in the gospel of Jesus Christ,” said Blake Maxfield.

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