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Sister Nelson talks about being married to President Nelson and his ‘fearless’ focus on preparing for the Second Coming

Sister Wendy Nelson speaks during a press conference in Concepcion, Chili on Saturday, Oct. 27, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
Sister Wendy Nelson speaks during a devotional in Asuncion, Paraguay on Monday, Oct. 22, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
Wendy Nelson walks with attendee Lilieth Rojas during the dedication of the LDS Concepcion Chili Temple in Concepcion, Chili on Sunday, Oct. 28, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Sister Wendy Nelson walk near the temple in Concepcion, Chili on Saturday, Oct. 27, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and wife Wendy Nelson greet missionaries in Asuncion, Paraguay on Monday, Oct. 22, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Sister Wendy Nelson meet Arlette Martinez and other youth in Concepcion, Chili on Saturday, Oct. 27, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Wendy Nelson enter the venue prior to a devotional in Asuncion, Paraguay on Monday, Oct. 22, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Wendy Nelson hug children after a devotional in Asuncion, Paraguay on Monday, Oct. 22, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Wendy Nelson and Elder Gary E. Stevenson, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles look over a few items given them my church members after the dedication of the LDS Concepcion Chile Temple in Concepcion, Chile on Sunday, Oct. 28, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Sister Wendy Nelson and Elder Gary E. Stevenson, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, and his wife sister Lesa Stevenson walk near the temple in Concepcion, Chili on Saturday, Oct. 27, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Wendy Nelson look to attendees during the dedication of the LDS Concepcion Chili Temple in Concepcion, Chili on Sunday, Oct. 28, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Sister Wendy Nelson hug near the temple in Concepcion, Chili on Saturday, Oct. 27, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Wendy Nelson talk with youth prior to a devotional in Asuncion, Paraguay on Monday, Oct. 22, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and how wife Sister Wendy Nelson greet a youngster after a devotional in Lima, Peru on Oct. 20, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Wendy Nelson stand with attendees Augustine Escobar and Lilieth Rojas during the dedication of the LDS Concepcion Chili Temple in Concepcion, Chili on Sunday, Oct. 28, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and his wife Sister Wendy Nelson greet missionaries prior to a missionary meeting in Montevideo, Uraguay on Thursday, Oct. 25, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints walks with his wife Sister Wendy Nelson to the stage during a devotional in Lima, Peru on Oct. 20, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and how wife Sister Wendy Nelson wave to attendees after a devotional in Lima, Peru on Oct. 20, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Sister Wendy Nelson and Elder Gary E. Stevenson, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, and his wife sister Lesa Stevenson stand near the temple in Concepcion, Chili on Saturday, Oct. 27, 2018. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News

CONCEPCIÓN, Chile — President Russell M. Nelson is “fearless” in his focus as President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, said his wife, Sister Wendy Nelson.

Speaking from Chile — the final stop of a five-country, nine-day tour through South America — Sister Nelson said her husband’s inspired focus on ministering; simplifying and reducing; shifting to a home-centered and Church-supported curriculum; using the full and inspired name of the Church; and emphasizing a covenant path comes from the Lord.

“He is not playing to the crowds with this at all,” she said. “He is only reporting to the Lord, and he is fearless with that focus.”

The historic trip to Peru, Bolivia, Paraguay, Uruguay and Chile this October followed President Nelson’s 94th birthday. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has been officially organized for 188 years — exactly double President Nelson’s age.

In addition, when President Nelson was born in 1924, there were no Latter-day Saints in South America; today Church membership on the continent exceeds 4 million.

“He loves South America,” said Sister Nelson of President Nelson, who visited Uruguay and Chile as a cardiac surgeon before becoming an Apostle.

“He has seen the faith of the people. He’s seen the love of the people for the Lord. Now he’s seen the love of the people for the temple.”

Sister Nelson has been to South America with President Nelson many times. But this trip felt different, she said.

“I’ve never been to South America with the President of the Church,” she said.

President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife, Sister Wendy Nelson, wave to attendees after a devotional in Lima, Peru, on Oct. 20, 2018.
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and how wife Sister Wendy Nelson wave to attendees after a devotional in Lima, Peru on Oct. 20, 2018. | Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News

“What’s caught my attention about that is to see how much the people love the Lord, and therefore they’re so drawn to the prophet.”

In the 10 months since President Nelson has been the President of the Church, he has found great happiness, said Sister Nelson. “He’s doing what he came to earth to do, so why wouldn’t he be happy?” she said.

Sister Nelson said she has seen changes in herself during the last 10 months.

“The reality of the Lord is more real,” she explained. “The reality of the truthfulness of the gospel is more real. The reality of … the previous 16 prophets of this dispensation is more real. The fact of Joseph Smith is more real. It is like everything that I have known is now on steroids and put in a beautiful gold frame.”

During the trip, President Nelson asked parents in every country to teach their children what it means to be a child of God. His sentiment is deep, Sister Nelson said.

She spoke of being with the children in South America, who are “drawn to … the Savior’s love that my husband exudes.”

“They feel very safe with him. They feel they can trust him.”

President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife Wendy Nelson hug children after a devotional in Asuncion, Paraguay on Monday, Oct. 22, 2018.
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife, Sister Wendy Nelson, hug children after a devotional in Asuncion, Paraguay, on Monday, Oct. 22, 2018. | Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret News, Deseret News

Sister Nelson said President Nelson’s innovative approach has prepared him for some of the responsibilities he shoulders as President of the Church. When he receives inspiration, “he’s not afraid to do something different. …

“He is saying, ‘What really is needful?’ If we’re really preparing the Church and the world for the Second Coming of the Savior, he is sincere about that. He doesn’t want us spending money, time, energy on anything that isn’t really focused on that.”

Sister Nelson said she sees the Lord strengthening her husband. Being among the membership of the Church is energizing to him, she added. “If he is at home, he’ll say, ‘It’s wonderful to be home, but I need to be with the people.’”

And when he has the chance to worry, what does President Nelson worry about?

“He worries about what is needful,” said Sister Nelson. “What does the Lord really want him to put in place? What does the Lord want him to get people doing?”

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