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Relief Society at 179 years: President Bingham’s message to women, including those doubting their place in the Church

Jean B. Bingham, president of the Relief Society, reads the Liahona, a magazine for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, in the Church History Museum in Salt Lake City, Utah, on Wednesday, August 5, 2020. Credit: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
President Jean B. Bingham hugs a member of the Relief Society following a meeting with local Relief Society leadership in Manila, Philippines on Feb. 2, 2020. Noel Maglaque, Philippines Area
Sister Jean B. Bingham walks through the Batilas family's garden during a visit to Catarman, Philippines, on Feb. 3, 2020. Credit: Noel Maglaque, Philippines Area
Sister Jean Barrus Bingham, right, and Sharon Lynn Eubank of LDS Charities tries local fruits picked by refugee women at Imvepi Refugee Settlement in Arua district of Uganda 28 February, 2017. With thousands of new arrivals fleeing to Uganda every day, South Sudan is now AfricaÕs largest refugee crisis and the worldÕs third after Syria and Afghanistan Ð with less attention and chronic levels of underfunding. Credit: Latter-day Saint Charities
Sister Jean Barrus Bingham, general president of the Relief Society, reads scriptures in her office in the Relief Society Building in Salt Lake City on Wednesday, Feb. 19, 2020. Credit: Laura Seitz, Deseret News
Sister Sharon Eubank, first counselor in the Relief Society general presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, receives bags of homemade clinical masks at the Deseret Industries in Riverton as part of the ProjectProtect initiative by Latter-day Saint Charities and local health care networks on Saturday, April 25, 2020. Credit: Spenser Heaps, Deseret News
Sister Jean B. Bingham, Relief Society general president of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, attends a collection drive for homemade clinical masks at the Deseret Industries in Ogden as part of the ProjectProtect initiative by Latter-day Saint Charities and local health care networks on Saturday, April 25, 2020. Credit: Spenser Heaps, Deseret News
Emma Smith, wife of the prophet Joseph Smith, became the first president of the Female Relief Society of Nauvoo on March 17, 1842. Credit: Joseph Smith Papers
President Jean B. Bingham hugs a member during a ministering visit in Manila, Philippines on Feb. 2, 2020. Credit: Noel Maglaque, Philippines Area
Ryan Wood, who plays the part of Abinadi talks with Sister Reyna I. Aburto second counselor in the general presidency of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as work on production of the Book of Mormon Videos Series continues in Provo at the LDS Motion Picture Studio on Tuesday, Sept. 3, 2019. Credit: Scott G Winterton, Deseret News
Sisters Belle S. Spafford, Marianne C. Sharp and Louise W. Madsen with the Relief Society general board in 1962, with members of the presidency at the head of the table. Left to right: Sisters Madsen, Spafford and Sharp, the Relief Society general board p Credit: Church History Library
Sister Amy Brown Lyman at Social Service Training in Anaconda, Montana, circa 1920. Lyman, bespec- tacled in the center of the front row, became a trained social worker after formative visits to Hull House in Chicago and was a leader in implementing socia Credit: Church History Library
Left to right: Elizabeth Ann Whitney, Emmeline B. Wells, and Eliza R. Snow. Photograph by Charles R. Savage. Credit: Church History Library

Leaders of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are “keenly aware” of the challenges women face in the world, Relief Society General President Jean B. Bingham said. 

“I have had the opportunity of being in many, many meetings and observed and counseled with the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and the First Presidency — and President [Russell M.] Nelson individually — and I can tell you, to a person, they are engaged in helping women realize their potential,” she said.

President Nelson has pleaded with the women of the Church to study priesthood power and learn of the “spiritual treasures” that are theirs. “The heavens are just as open to women who are endowed with God’s power flowing from their priesthood covenants as they are to men who bear the priesthood,” he taught in the October 2019 general conference

Days before the 179th anniversary of the organization of the Relief Society, President Bingham spoke in a Church News podcast about the influence of Latter-day Saint women and their vital role in bringing others to the Savior. The podcast episode will be released tomorrow, March 16.

Episode 22: ‘Charity Never Faileth’ even in a pandemic — President Bingham celebrates 179 years of Relief Society

“I know that if we can harness the power of the women of Relief Society, no power on Earth can stop this good work,” President Bingham declared. 

“My message to all of my sisters who may be wondering where their place is in the Church is to absolutely affirm that your place is in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, giving your talents and time and abilities to lifting and blessing those around you.”

Physical and spiritual relief

At the first meeting of the Female Relief Society of Nauvoo on March 17, 1842, President Emma Smith stated, “We are going to do something extraordinary.”

Emma Smith, wife of the prophet Joseph Smith, became the first president of the Female Relief Society of Nauvoo on March 17, 1842.
Emma Smith, wife of the prophet Joseph Smith, became the first president of the Female Relief Society of Nauvoo on March 17, 1842. | Credit: Joseph Smith Papers

Today, the Relief Society is one of the world’s largest, oldest and most diverse women’s organizations in the world. What began as a small gathering in the red brick store in Nauvoo, Illinois, now includes 7.5 million women in 220 countries. 

Reflective in the organization’s name, “one of the main purposes is to relieve suffering, whether it’s physical or spiritual,” President Bingham said. “And that is a power for good that Relief Society sisters all have a responsibility for.”

Early in its history, the Relief Society wrote and published the Woman’s Exponent, a newspaper by and for women that fostered unity, expounded gospel principles and influenced the suffragist movement in the United States.

With many mothers and babies dying in childbirth in their communities, the Relief Society sent women to medical schools in the eastern United States to become doctors, nurses and midwives. They later started the first maternity hospital in Utah. 

President Bingham also described early Relief Society efforts to grow, harvest and store wheat — which provided food for survivors of the 1906 San Francisco earthquake and was sold to the U.S. government to alleviate shortages after World War I. 

More recently, in May and June 2020, more than 57,500 volunteers from around the state of Utah sewed nearly 6 million masks to help healthcare workers on the frontlines of COVID-19. Similar mask-sewing efforts have been carried out around the globe. 

And currently, the Relief Society is sponsoring programs to alleviate child malnutrition in various locations and to enhance literacy for women, the latter she highlighted during an address on International Women’s Day.

Relief Society sisters bless families and communities, as well as individuals, President Bingham said. “One of the strengths of the organization is caring one by one for each other, making sure that each woman has a safe place to find support and encouragement as she learns and progresses.”

“Women who belong to Relief Society serve others in an astounding variety of ways,” she said. “Because of their faith in Jesus Christ, they follow His example in loving and lifting those around them. And because of their understanding of Heavenly Father’s plan of salvation, they reach out to help others understand their divine worth — that we are all children of God. …

“Wherever I go around the globe, from Scotland to South Africa, or Chile to the Czech Republic, or the Philippines or Farmington, Utah, I know I can count on women of the Relief Society to welcome me as a sister. I have felt that throughout the world.” 

‘You are needed’

Recognizing there are many young women who feel apprehensive or hesitant about participating in Relief Society, President Bingham said she has a three-word message for them: “You are needed.”

“We need your energy and your talents, your faith, your creativity, your drive, your knowledge,” she said.

Avoid the distraction of thinking that Relief Society is for “old ladies,” President Bingham counseled. “It really is for every woman, from age 18 to 108 and beyond. It can be as relevant, as fun and as invigorating, as it is comforting and reassuring of individual worth.” 

“I think one of the wonderful benefits of participating in Relief Society is the opportunity to have friends of all ages from all walks of life,” she said, adding that “we learn from each other and we strengthen each other as we share testimonies and talents.”

President Jean B. Bingham speaks with Charlene Lagrimas, left, and Maribel Chu, center, outside of the home of a family they minister to as part of a stake pilot program focused on malnutrition in Catarman, Philippines, on Feb. 3, 2020.
President Jean B. Bingham speaks with Charlene Lagrimas, left, and Maribel Chu, center, outside of the home of a family they minister to as part of a stake pilot program focused on malnutrition in Catarman, Philippines, on Feb. 3, 2020. | Credit: Noel Maglaque, Philippines Area

For those struggling to find their place in Relief Society, President Bingham said, “So often, we feel like we need to have someone give us direction. We don’t. Use your own initiative, your own inspiration, your own personal revelation to find ways to bless.”

Receiving personal revelation is “critical,” she added. It is essential to making decisions and knowing how to move forward — even amid difficult circumstances. 

“There are so many things in this world that can distract, divert, deceive us if we do not go to the source of perfect truth. We are agents unto ourselves, so when prophets give us direction we can ask God and know the truth for ourselves.”

Women’s voices

As President Bingham and other women leaders have participated in various councils with the senior leadership of the Church, “unfailingly they solicit and consider seriously our input,” she said. 

“I’ve seen many things change because of women sharing a perspective in those councils. … It is delightful to be open and candid and share and feel that my perspective is valued and understood and acted on. That is something that I hope every woman can experience in her leadership opportunities in the Church.”

President Jean B. Bingham, Relief Society general president, and President Russell M. Nelson discuss the role of women in the restoration of priesthood authority in a video shown during the Saturday evening session of the 190th Annual General Conference on April 4, 2020.
President Jean B. Bingham, Relief Society general president, and President Russell M. Nelson discuss the role of women in the restoration of priesthood authority in a video shown during the Saturday evening session of the 190th Annual General Conference on April 4, 2020. | Credit: Screenshot, ChurchofJesusChrist.org

Latter-day Saint women have “untapped potential” in leading, lifting, loving and strengthening others, President Bingham said. “And when we forget ourselves and go to work, as the expression goes, we’ll be able to accomplish more than we ever imagined. … 

“I have seen women and men work together to make a difference, to change lives, to strengthen the good in the world. And I know that that is our mandate, and we need to choose to do that. We can do that. I know that this is the Lord’s work, without a doubt. It’s not the work of man. Heavenly Father allows us to help one another for us to grow and become more like Him.” 

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