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Updated: Church leaders echo President Nelson’s invitation to reach out to ‘the one’ for his 100th birthday

Here’s what Church leaders are saying on social media about President Nelson’s invitation

Leaders of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are echoing President Russell M. Nelson’s recent invitation to spread the Savior’s love by reaching out to someone in need.

One hundred days before his 100th birthday on Sept. 9, President Nelson posted a message on social media highlighting the parable of the lost sheep — where Jesus uses the number 100 to teach about love and service.

“Though 99 of his flock were safely by his side, the shepherd went in search of the 1 who was lost,” President Nelson explained in a June 1 social media post. “At age 99, I have no need of physical gifts. But one spiritual offering that would brighten my life is for each of us to reach out to ‘the one’ in our lives who may be feeling lost or alone.”

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In the days following this invitation, Church leaders are reiterating President Nelson’s counsel on their social media channels using the hashtag #99plus1, sharing insights about serving closely with him and examples of when they or others have been cared for as “the one.”

This will be updated as leaders post.

‘Unfailingly kind and compassionate’

President Dallin H. Oaks, first counselor in the First Presidency, said this year marks 40 years since he and President Nelson were both called, sustained and set apart as Apostles in the Quorum of the Twelve.

In the many years he has known him, “President Nelson has consistently taught me how to selflessly and lovingly serve others through his example,” President Oaks wrote in a June 3 social media post.

“I appreciate the invitation he recently shared with us to reach out to ‘the one’ as part of our efforts to be like the Savior Jesus Christ. President Nelson is an exemplary follower and servant of the Savior. He is a great role model for all members and leaders in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He is always very open and easy to approach, and he is unfailingly kind and compassionate,” President Oaks continued.

“May we follow the counsel of the Lord’s prophet and seek ways to improve our efforts to minister to ‘the one.’”

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‘Incredible, God-given love’

President Henry B. Eyring, second counselor in the First Presidency, commented on President Nelson’s “incredible, God-given love” for everyone he meets.

“I’ve always been impressed that his love for people leads him to learn and remember their names,” President Eyring said of President Nelson in a June 4 social media post. “I’ve watched him interact with countless individuals over many years, and it’s remarkable how he remembers when he met them and even the names of their spouse and children. The very sound of his voice as he speaks their names seems to convey his great love.

“May we all accept President Nelson’s recent invitation to reach out to someone just as the Savior would. This is a special opportunity to show our love to others, just as our dear prophet shares his Christlike love with all of God’s children.”

A true gentleman

President Jeffrey R. Holland, acting president of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, described President Nelson as “the kindest man I have ever been associated with” and “the man for whom the word ‘gentleman’ was created.”

“One of the virtues I have seen President Russell M. Nelson portray unfailingly is his genuine, heartfelt kindness, which has often led him to leave the ninety and nine to go after the one,” President Holland wrote in a June 5 social media post.

In the more than 40 years President Holland has known him, he said he cannot think of a time when President Nelson was unkind, abrupt, rude or insensitive. “As we strive to follow the Savior, let us follow the example of President Nelson’s Christlike character,” he wrote.

The recipient of an effort to seek after ‘the one’

In a June 17 social media post, Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles shared an experience of when he was the recipient of someone’s efforts to seek after “the one.”

When Elder Cook was beginning junior high school, his family moved to a new home in a different congregation. He was still adjusting to the new ward when a father-son event was announced for Bear Lake, about 40 miles away.

“My father was exceptional in every way but was not an active member, so I did not think I would be able to attend,” Elder Cook wrote. “However, one devoted leader, Brother Dean Eyre, issued a special invitation for me to go with him. ... I decided to go with Brother Eyre and had a wonderful experience.”

Elder Cook described Brother Eyre as “a marvelous example of Christlike love” who was a mentor to him.

“There are many ‘ones’ out there for us to find and minister unto. May we all strive to be shepherds over the Lord’s flock in our individual realms of stewardship,” Elder Cook concluded.

The story of Abinadi and Alma

Sunday School General President Mark L. Pace said President Nelson’s invitation to minister to “the one” reminds him of Abinadi’s story in the Book of Mormon.

Standing in the Book of Mormon gallery in the Conference Center on Temple Square in front of a painting of Abinadi preaching the gospel to King Noah, President Pace recounted how Abinadi faced rejection and death. Yet his words reached Alma. Alma believed, fled, and later spread the gospel, impacting numerous lives.

“This story teaches us that even if we don’t see the immediate results of our efforts, our faith and courage could spread through generations,” President Pace wrote in a June 18 Instagram post.

“You might be the one who makes a lasting difference in someone’s life. Embrace the prophet’s invitation to seek out and minister to the one who needs you. Your efforts, seen or unseen, can have profound impacts.”

‘You’re a good boy’

When Elder Dale G. Renlund of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles sat reverently during a Church meeting as a child, his neighbor Becky would affectionately grab his cheek, pat him on the head and say, “You’re a good boy.”

Later in his youth when he passed the sacrament, and at age 21 after he had reported on his mission in sacrament meeting, she did the same thing — “You’re a good boy,” she told him.

A few years ago, Elder Renlund returned to the ward he grew up in. At age 90, Becky again grabbed him by the cheek, patted his head and said, “You’re a good boy.”

“Her applause for my efforts to be good make me want to be good and to be better,” he wrote in a June 20 social media post. “Becky’s influence on me helps me understand the importance of seeing individuals and motivates me to take President Nelson’s invitation seriously and seek out individuals that I can help.”

Individualized ministry

Elder David A. Bednar of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles echoed President Nelson’s invitation on social media by teaching that each member of the Church has a “personal and one-by-one ministry” to perform.

“In this individualized work of the ministry, the Savior frequently relies upon us to deliver His tender mercies,” he wrote in a June 23 social media post. “Sometimes we may be aware of the role we are performing in accomplishing God’s purposes; many, and perhaps even most times, we are not.

“We are blessed to be instruments through whom tender mercies can be delivered to those in need — because the worth of souls is great in the sight of God.”

A blessing from Elder Nelson

In a video posted to his social media channels, Elder Neil L. Andersen of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles shared an experience in which then-Elder Nelson ministered to him in 2002.

Elder Andersen — who was serving as an area president in Brazil — was having doubts about his ability to speak Portuguese in a presentation for stake presidents. Elder Nelson offered encouragement and reassurance, and gave him a priesthood blessing. Elder Andersen was able to give the presentation in Portuguese.

“I have cherished the sweet blessing I received from then Elder Nelson all those years ago and continue to look up to him and his example as our dear prophet today,” Elder Andersen wrote in a June 24 social media post, with the accompanying video.

Elder Andersen then asked his followers, “When have you been ‘the one’?”

‘Sometimes we are the 99 and sometimes we are the 1′

When Elder Gerrit W. Gong of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles was a young bishop, a family in his ward experienced significant water and termite issues. Ward members rallied to help repair the damage to the Ritter family’s home, including a skilled builder named Larry O’Connor.

Not long after, Larry and Tina O’Connor received emergency word their home was on fire. Again, ward members rallied to help repair the damage — this time, the Ritter family in the lead.

“During our lives, we will all be part of the 99 who help and the 1 who needs help,” Elder Gong wrote in a June 25 social media post. “Sometimes we are the 99 and sometimes we are the 1, but through covenant belonging we can each belong and be part of the whole — members of the household of faith and the community of Latter-day Saints, neighbors, friends, brothers and sisters.”

Magnifying daily efforts

Elder Gary E. Stevenson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles posted a photo with Elder Carlos A. Godoy of the Presidency of the Seventy and shared Elder Godoy’s story of being ministered to as a new convert.

Young Elder Godoy suddenly felt like he did not fit in his congregation anymore, as the missionaries who taught him were transferred and he didn’t have friends in the ward. “He began to stray from the flock,” Elder Stevenson recounted in a June 26 social media post.

Then a fellow ward member, in a warm and inclusive way, invited Elder Godoy to return.

“Isn’t it remarkable how such small efforts can have eternal consequences? This truth is at the heart of our ministering efforts: Heavenly Father can take our simple, daily efforts and turn them into something miraculous,” Elder Stevenson wrote.

‘Give of ourselves quietly and kindly’

In a video posted to his social media channels, Elder Ulisses Soares of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles narrated the story of a 10-year-old girl who “quietly left the 99 to serve someone in need.” She gave her coat — the only coat she had brought on a trip — to a young girl on the street who was wet and cold.

“I encourage all of you to take heed of this inspired invitation from our prophet,” Elder Soares wrote in the June 30 social media post, with the accompanying video. “Turning our hearts outward as the Savior did will bless us with limitless opportunities to give of ourselves quietly and kindly to people who need us.”

Inspiration on behalf of a missionary

When Elder Ronald A. Rasband of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles was serving as a mission president in New York, he felt impressed to ask a certain missionary to provide the opening prayer for a mission conference with Elder Neal A. Maxwell. Elder Rasband told the missionary of this prompting during an interview with him.

“With amazement and humility in his eyes, he began to weep deeply,” Elder Rasband recalled in a July 3 social media post. The missionary told him that Elder Maxwell had called his father to be the district president in Accra, Ghana, and had sealed his mother and father in the Salt Lake Temple.

“Now, I didn’t know any of this beforehand, but the Lord did, and He inspired a mission president on behalf of one missionary to provide a lifelong memory and testimony-building experience,” Elder Rasband wrote.

“Let us all strive [to] heed President Russell M. Nelson’s invitation to minister to the one, ‘one by one’ like the Savior.”

‘You are having a wonderful influence in their lives’

Sunday School General President Mark L. Pace had “a wonderful Sunday School teacher,” Morris Kjar, as a high schooler. President Pace expressed his gratitude for Kjar, who he said was a great soul who had a profound influence, teaching with love and the Spirit.

“Dear teachers, thanks for your similar influence in teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ to the youth in your classes,” he said in a July 5 social media post. “They feel the confirming witness of the Spirit as you are teaching. They follow your example. They notice your devotion and feel of your love and encouragement.”

Just as Kjar changed students’ lives, “you are having a wonderful influence in their lives,” said President Pace. “We thank you for blessing the lives of the youth throughout the Church. We are grateful for you. We love you. God bless you.”

Notes of encouragement

In her first few weeks as second counselor in the Young Women general presidency, Sister Andrea Muñoz Spannaus felt overwhelmed. Sister Fuller, when delivering her lunch, would always include a handwritten note of encouragement.

“How much I loved her notes,” Sister Spannaus recounted in a July 16 social media post. “Many times, those words lifted my spirit and gave me strength to carry on.”

She continued that just like in the parable of the lost sheep, “Sister Fuller thought of me, and I was her +1. Who needs your help today?”

End-of-semester gratitude

Brother Bradley R. Wilcox, first counselor in the Young Men general presidency, would always get many emails at the end of the semester as a BYU professor. Students had questions about grades, the class final or turning in assignments late.

But one semester, he explained in a July 16 social media video, “it was so refreshing to open one of the emails and just have a student say, ‘Thank you, Brother Wilcox. Thank you for being a teacher, and thank you for making a difference in my life.’”

That student, without even realizing it, was following President Nelson’s invitation to minister to ‘the one,’ said Brother Wilcox. “I’m so grateful that this student went out of their way to uplift and encourage me. It made a huge difference for me.”

Two ‘ones’ serving each other

When Elder D. Todd Christofferson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles was a youth, his mother underwent a serious operation that left her mostly bedridden for nearly a year. The Relief Society president recommended the family hire a ward member who desperately needed work, to whom Elder Christofferson referred as Sara.

“Through the weeks, we learned more about Sara’s story,” he wrote in a July 22 social media post. This included being hard of hearing, dropping out of school and having her husband abandon Sara and her daughter.

After Elder Christofferson’s mother recovered, and through the family’s help, Sara got a hearing aid from an ear doctor, got her high school diploma through adult schooling, bought a home and eventually even served a mission.

“I believe my mother and Sara were both ‘the ones’ in need of ministering and service,” said Elder Christofferson. “I am grateful for both of their examples to me of Christlike love.”

A ‘ministering angel’ with a sweet treat

Amid battling an aggressive cancer, and after three days in the infusion room, Sister Amy A. Wright, first counselor in the Primary general presidency, collapsed on the couch. Pain, exhaustion, hunger, and blisters filling her mouth and throat caused Sister Wright to ask in her mind, “Heavenly Father, do You know that I am here? Do You know what I am going through? Do You care?”

Then the doorbell rang. Her son answered it and came back with a cup of half-melted ice cream, with instructions: “Here, give this to your mom.” She recounted in a July 22 social media post that the treat tasted amazing and was the perfect consistency to soothe her throat.

Sister Wright later found out that the friend who brought the dessert started off her morning with a prayer for Sister Wright and her family. Then later that day, while driving, the impression came to get her ice cream immediately.

She continued: “I did not know what I needed at that moment, but my Heavenly Father did! How grateful I am for this ministering angel who had the faith to listen to the promptings of the Spirit and the courage to act.”

‘His influence has made a difference’

In the past couple of years, a man has taken the time to get to know three adult children of Brother Michael T. Nelson, second counselor in the Young Men general presidency.

He has spent time with them to play games and teach, said Brother Nelson in a July 24 social media video. “He has brought a renewed energy and a fun, gospel-oriented experience into their lives.”

Brother Nelson shared his gratitude for this man and his reaching out to the one: “I am very thankful for the time he has spent in service of us. His influence has made a difference in my life and the lives of my children.”

Last-minute sewing

Sister Tracy Y. Browning, second counselor in the Primary general presidency, was filled with panic one night after forgetting to alter her son’s white temple pants for his endowment the next day. Then came to her mind the words “Call Lori.”

“My dear friend left her 99 things to do to help me with my 1,” Sister Browning recounted in a July 29 social media post. “She is a beautiful example of Jesus Christ in my life.”

Her family had a special and peaceful day at the temple the next morning because of this service. “I’m a grateful beneficiary of the love of the Savior delivered to me through the ministering of friends who are quick [to] spread His love.”

The Prophet’s one-by-one ministering in Australia

Sister Tamara W. Runia, first counselor in the Young Women general presidency, shared in a July 30 social media post how President Russell M. Nelson reached out to the “one.”

To close a devotional in Sydney, Australia, a choir sang “We Thank Thee, O God, for a Prophet.” However, the verses projected on the big screen were out of order, and the music chorister was left with the impossible task of leading despite the “cacophony of voices.”

After the benediction, said Sister Runia, the Prophet walked directly to the chorister. “I don’t know the words President Nelson said, but from the look on her face, they were words of comfort and of peace, for she smiled back — a weight now lifted.”

President Nelson was aware of her, despite the chaos, Sister Runia said. “Truly this man, a prophet of God, left the 99 — or rather the 8,000 — to go after the 1. And those of us who witnessed it will never forget it.”

Reminders that Heavenly Father fills the gaps

After giving a talk or teaching a lesson, Young Men General President Steven J. Lund sometimes feels self-doubt and wonders if he gave the topic the preparation it deserved. Yet people often talk to him afterward to say his message spoke to them through the Spirit.

“It means a lot to me whenever someone comes up to me after I give a talk or a lesson and thanks me for the message and how it has helped them,” President Lund said in a July 31 social media post.

He continued: “These subtle reminders help me to know that Heavenly Father fills in the gaps. I am grateful for those individuals, and I’ve found this simple type of service to be a big help to me.”

Ask Heavenly Father what to do, then do it

Elder Patrick Kearon of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles testified in an Aug. 8 social media post that “The Savior, the Good Shepherd, goes in search of His lost sheep until He finds them.”

Quoting the New Testament, he said that Christ is “not willing that any should perish” (2 Peter 3:9).

Elder Kearon invited: “Let us follow His example and respond to the impressions we receive, no matter how insignificant they may seem. Let us ask our Father in Heaven what we might do, and for whom, and do it.”

A quilt that filled in the gaps

Amid her husband dealing with cancer and the effects of chemotherapy, President Emily Belle Freeman received a homemade quilt with names of Jesus. A note explained the quilter debated not sending the blanket because it was larger than she had anticipated.

The Young Women general president shared in an Aug. 13 social media post that the quilter texted her daughter, “But it takes up all the space.” The daughter, noting that the quilt showed the names of Christ, responded with, “Maybe it’s because that’s just who He is.”

President Freeman hung up the quilt that day, and it was exactly the right size for her wall. “He will fill in the gaps,” she said. “He is enough. He will carry us through. That’s just who He is.”

She continued: “I don’t know why that darling woman from Texas decided to spend so much time and creativity on such a beautiful gift for me. But my life has already been blessed immensely by it. A moment where I experienced what it felt like to be the one.”

An impression and message for ‘the one’

While traveling on an assignment earlier this year, Sister Kristin M. Yee — second counselor in the Relief Society general presidency — felt miserable and alone in her hotel room after getting sick. Then she got a message from a dear friend she hadn’t heard from in a while, saying Sister Yee was on her mind and in her prayers.

This brought hope and a flood of joyful tears, said Sister Yee in an Aug. 15 social media post. “I know the Lord is very aware of our needs and knows how to help us in ways, and at times, that will bless us most. I’m grateful He loves us and that He often cares for us through the goodness of others.”

The friend who sent the message later recounted she had been praying that day to know how to help “the one,” and she had a strong impression to reach out to Sister Yee.

“Each of us has been ‘the one’ that the Lord personally succors,” she said. “Knowing what a merciful gift this is, I pray we may join in President Nelson’s invitation and seek for impressions to bless others and find ‘the one’ that the Savior would have us bring His unfailing love and relief to.”

The power of an invitation

Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles said he was 6 years old when his life “was eternally blessed because of someone who understood what it meant to reach out to ‘the one.’” It was a single invitation that blessed his family.

It was just after World War II, Elder Uchtdorf shared in a July 28 social media post, and his grandmother was standing in line for food “when an elderly single sister invited her to sacrament meeting” in Zwickau, Germany. His grandmother and parents accepted the invitation.

“They went to church, felt the Spirit, were uplifted by the kindness of the members and were edified by the hymns of the Restoration. My grandmother, my parents and my three siblings were all baptized,” Elder Uchtdorf said. After two years, he was also baptized.

A Christmas Eve phone call

Primary General President Susan H. Porter shared in an Aug. 23 social media video a past experience that recently came to mind. On Christmas Eve 10 years ago, President Porter walked the corridors of a hospital 2,000 miles from home, after her husband, Bruce, received surgery. His health was failing, and doctors had no idea what was going on.

Then her phone rang — it was one of Bruce’s sisters, Carolyn, offering to bring her family, pick up President Porter and take her to dinner. Not wanting Carolyn and her family to spend the holiday away from home, President Porter declined the invitation.

“As soon as the call ended, I knew I had made a mistake,” she recalled. “The Spirit whispered that Heavenly Father had sent Carolyn to me. God loved Bruce and was watching over him and would in my absence. And God also loved me.”

To this day, President Porter still remembers the restaurant they went to that night and the joy they all felt sharing memories of past Christmases. “My burdens were lifted. I knew in that moment that I was ‘the one.’ I pray that I may seek Heavenly Father’s Spirit to know who I might go to for Him.”

A loving reminder that they weren’t alone

Several weeks after Sister J. Anette Dennis’ husband lost his job years ago, and with no success in job searching, the couple did an endowment session at the Salt Lake Temple. Next to Sister Dennis — now first counselor in the Relief Society general presidency — sat an older woman she had never seen before.

“She leaned over and whispered in my ear, ‘Heavenly Father knows you and loves you,’” Sister Dennis wrote in an Aug. 31 social media post. “Several times throughout the session, she leaned over and repeated the same message to me. I was quite overcome with emotion.”

This experience, said Sister Dennis, taught her that Heavenly Father was aware of her family’s circumstances and that they weren’t alone. “I’m so grateful for that inspired sister who followed the Spirit’s promptings that evening and had the courage to reach out to ‘the one’ who needed to know the Lord was aware of her family.”

Ministering from a distance

Sister Andrea Muñoz Spannaus has had a friend, Andrea Acosta, since they were teenagers. Acosta was a great influence in the life of Sister Spannaus, second counselor in the Young Women general presidency.

When the 95-year-old great-aunt of Sister Spannaus “graduated from her life on earth,” she could not travel for the funeral, she said in a Sept. 4 social media post.

But since her friend lived in Argentina, “Andrea was the one who did for me what I couldn’t do because I was so far away: She bought her flowers and put a card in my name, helped my mom with the funeral details, and was by her side hugging her and accompanying her.”

She continued, “My heart is filled with gratitude to my dear friend for such a great display of her love.” Acosta had ministered to Sister Spannaus from a distance.

The friend who ‘just knows’ how to help

In a Sept. 6 social media post, Relief Society General President Camille N. Johnson shared how a friend who “just knows” has ministered to her.

“She just knew that I wanted some flowers for my front porch but hadn’t had the time to plant any,” wrote President Johnson. “She just knew that when I was thousands of miles from home serving as a mission leader in Peru, I would want to take my mom to lunch. She just knew that I, as a twelve-year-old girl in a new state and at a new school, needed a friend.”

So the friend planted and lunched and befriended, “because she just always knows what I need but wouldn’t ask for. I was the 1. And yet, I know there are at least 99 more for whom she provides loving care.”

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